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J Scott's avatar

Thank you John.

Gen X were the big kids when I grew up and now are most my bosses now, this is a helpful contemplation.

It is similar for the Ys. Trying to make "experiences" what they love, because they cant afford anything else.

Early 80s kid, right on the line of X and Y still feels like part of the world I grew up in was a figmemt of imagination.

At the same time, doing what I can to givd my kids the town Amish experience. Lots of books, good music, analog inputs. Also trying to teach them to actually use computers, as a tool and not a black screen of doom.

Unsure college will have any relevance to my kids, and I plan to put everything into them, to establish the next generation.

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GAHCindy's avatar

The hard part for those who don't live by the system--because we don't want to die by it--is that the system still provides the illusion of a promised path. I'm graduating my second homeschooled student, and we're looking at all the possibilities, starting with a gap year to work and save and figure out what's next, if anything. The obvious paths (college, military) are all so streamlined for service to the Beast that it's hard to know what to do.

Everybody else is so proud to be throwing their 18yo into the maw of the debt-monster they call college, as if the child had accomplished something already. We're just (like you put it) embracing Loserville until a path opens up. We've got some smart, learned kids here, and there's hardly a place for them to go that doesn't compromise what they know to be true of themselves and God and reality. Fortunately, God knows where they're all going. But I? Not a clue. We just don't have the social structure to support the choices we've made. But we couldn't make any other choices with a clear conscience.

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